This is how stupid my MIL (mother-in-law) is. She and FIL (father-in-law, can you see the pattern?) went to the grocery store. FIL lugs in the bags and mentions the bag of bread. He didn’t buy it and Mil didn’t buy it, so why do they have it? The person before them in the check-out left a bag of bread and the IL picked it up by mistake. Empath and I, looking at this as free bread, asked what kind (Wonder) and offered to take it off their hands. MIL comes downstairs a few hours later and says she putting the bread on top of the fridge. I go out to get it and growl. MIL hid the “hot” bread behind 2 cereal boxes and a box of saltines, you know, in case the cops bust in with a warrant for this “stolen” bread.
I tell Empath this. If MIL is so worried about having bread she didn’t pay for and if the person who actually bought the bread was concerned about it enough to return to the grocery to get what they forgot, why the hell didn’t she take the damned bread back to the store? She acts like it’s some sort of theft.
A preface explaining things about my Dad’s estate. Dad had life insurance and we 4 kids are getting a payout from it. None of us are happy that Dad’s dead just so we can have money, but the money is welcome. We’ve all got debt collectors, child support, overdue bills, back rent, etc. waiting to pounce on us whenever we get a hint of cash. My sister, M, and I have been talking about what to do with the money. Of course, we’re going foursies for paying the funeral/burial costs and Dad’s bills plus upkeep for the house until it can be sold. M is planning on fixing up her bathroom, like putting in a tub/shower that doesn’t leak. I am wanting to buy a new bed and pay off bills.
Emapth and I went comparison bed shopping yesterday. We stopped into a mattress store which sold, funnily, just mattresses. The guy is super informative about what we should be looking for such as high coil count (we’re both fat), what that puffy bit on top of mattresses is about (padding for comfort) and that he hasn’t had anyone fall asleep on him.
The next shop is too fru-fru. If you watch Trading Spaces, it’s a store for Hildy. Last shop is Leon’s which is a furnishing store with bed sets, appliances, dinette sets and recliners. We found 2 fuzzy, ultra soft rockers that were yummy.
With the beds, we found a mattress and frame we like. Empath is a bed flopper, so a low footboard or no footboard is best. I think we can fit a queen size with room on either side for us to get in and out of bed. Our current bed is a full (slightly bigger than double) and the frame is a 3/4 frame – the foot of the bed has no support. The mattress is $1599 and the frame is $599. Leon’s delivers free in the city (my the city), so yayness! ^_^ I ran by the kitchen appliances and picked out the fridge, baby deep freezer and stove I want should we win the Lotto649 or be blessed with a Big Bag O’ Money from the Money Fairy.
I’m waiting for the insurance check to come, then we can buy the bed and probably sleep better. Empath thinks a new bed will do wonders for his arthritis (knees and hips). I’m looking forward to not having to wake up with a bloody elbow from a poky spring.